Color is emotional and evocative. It’s one of the first things our brains register when we notice clothes. Each day last week, I dressed in a different color from the visible spectrum. Monday – Red. Tuesday – Orange. Wednesday – Yellow and Green. Thursday – Blue. Friday – Indigo and Violet.
The color week kicked off with my first adventure in coloring my hair! It’s auburn now and it just adds a little spark to these outfits. January and February are the doldrums for me. It’s dark, it’s dreary, it’s cold, and everything looks a little gray. I find myself feeling gray inside and out. So I decided to go out on a limb and grabbed a box of L’Oreal dye at Walgreens and went for it. If you’re feeling drab, I’d recommend changing your hair color up a little bit!
The bright color brightened my mood in the midst of the doldrum months. I love all colors, but red is probably my favorite right now. It’s beautiful and packs a punch. I probably will never be a pastel pink kind of woman, even though I think pink looks beautiful on other people. Give me the drama. Make it bright and bold.
Now, the Roy G. Biv colors were the stars of the week, but the neutrals held these looks together. Black, cream, gray, navy, tan, and metallics show off bright colors and keep a colorful wardrobe from being a one-note wardrobe. So you can’t really say that you don’t wear colors, because black is a color and gray is a color. Even if 90% of your clothes are black, you still have to pay attention to colors and what shades look best on you. Have you ever tried to match a navy bridesmaid dress to everybody else’s navy bridesmaid dresses? It’s one of the hardest thing. There’s a nearly infinite variety of navy shades out there.
To have style, you must have an appreciation of color. That isn’t to say that you need to wear bright colors, it means that you need to be conscious of what colors you look best in and what colors already exist in your closet. When you look in your closet do you see all gray, cream, and navy? That’s a color scheme! (And it’s a beautiful color scheme. Don’t feel guilty for liking neutrals.) If you want to zing up that neutral wardrobe, add a citrus accessory, like yellow shoes or a coral bag or orange earrings. I really loved how the orange and silver went together this week – it was clean and punchy and sci-fi and COOL. If all your clothes are bright, you probably need some neutral trousers to balance out the party on top. Start thinking about your closet as a whole and you’ll have fewer pieces that you’re unsure about wearing.
For the second week, I focused on fit and proportion. Color is probably the first thing that the eye takes in, but fit is equally important and probably the hardest thing to nail in fashion. When you find a flawless fit, you want everything to fit that well. I remember trying on my first pair of jeans that really fit and that was it. My life changed. I couldn’t wear mom jeans anymore. That wasn’t even an option anymore. ONLY JEANS THAT FIT.
Speaking of jeans, I got questions about how to wear boyfriend jeans, so I went down to Marshall’s and tried on about five different pairs.
Like in most trying-on-lots-of-jeans adventures, some fit SO BADLY that I didn’t even take a picture of them. It just wasn’t worth it. My opinion: boyfriend jeans aren’t for me. I’ve got hips and a rear, but my calves are toned and pretty small. The boyfriend jeans didn’t reflect that fact, because they’re meant to look like men’s jeans. A little oversized, a straight fit, and they’re usually damsel-level distressed (to give the illusion that a boyfriend has, in fact, worn them). I think these jeans look best on thin, boyish figures, because they negate curves. When they fit at my waist, there was excess material around my legs. I found one pair that fit better around the legs, but I could BARRRELY zip them up. If I end up venturing away from skinny jeans, it will probably be for some fabulous wide-leg jeans with a high waist, because drama. I do like the way boyfriend jeans look on other women – they look especially great paired with a buttondown shirt or with a t-shirt and a blazer, because the tailored separates elevate the deliberately slouchy fit of the jeans.
In the end, I decided to get a black skinny jeans and velvet sweatpants. I love black jeans and I only have one pair right now, so these are definitely going to pull their weight. And if I’m going for a slouchy fit, the trousers need to not only look comfy, but be comfy. And boy are those velvet joggers comfy. The material is nice enough that I wore them to work, but I prefer more structure in my work clothes, because structure makes me feel sharper and smarter. So the joggers will mainly be change-into-these-after-work clothes.
Fit changes how you feel in your clothes, so for the wearer, it is more important than color. Color mainly benefits other people, because they see your clothes. How clothes fit benefits you, because you WEAR your clothes. Good fit gives you better posture, makes you look put together, and gives an aura of confidence, even if the wearer doesn’t quite know what makes the outfit work.
Great fit is all about the details. For tops, the shoulder is the most important place to fit. If the sleeves are too long, you can roll them up. If the shirt is too long, you can tuck it in. But you really can’t disguise shoulder seam placement, so choose tops based on how well they fit through the shoulders and chest.
For my particular body type, tops and dresses are fairly simple to fit. The trouble comes at the trousers. I’m just shy of 5 feet 3 inches. Therefore, I am a short person. That’s not unusual. A lot of people are short. But I also have a long torso, so my legs are comically short. Short people make fun of how short my legs are. I sometimes find capris and wear them as regular trousers. My usual strategy is to get skinny jeans that fit well at the ankles, so when I roll them up, they stay rolled up. My other strategy is to get my mom to hem my trousers. But I’m learning to hem my own. Because I’m an adult. If I come across jeans that fit perfectly without alterations, that is cause for rejoicing. Whenever I get frustrated with finding trousers that fit, I take comfort in this exchange between Jeeves and Wooster in P.G. Wodehouse’s The Code of the Woosters:
“Yes, sir. The trousers perhaps a quarter of an inch higher, sir.
One aims at the carelessly graceful break over the instep. It is a
matter of the nicest adjustment.”
“There are moments, Jeeves, when one asks oneself ‘Do
“The mood will pass, sir.”
It is true. The mood will pass. Excellent fit is a thing of beauty and a joy forever.
Great style starts and ends with how your clothes fit. Texture and color and personality (which we’ll be covering next week) are important, but the first question you should ask is always, “DOES THIS FIT ME?” If the answer is no, then try a different size. If you have to go up to an extra large to get the correct fit, who cares? If it fits correctly, it will look better than a medium. If you are uncomfortable in the size 10, go up to a size 12. If it turns out that the style doesn’t fit you, try a different style.
Some women look beautiful in pencil skirts, but if you try on a pencil skirt and it doesn’t look good on you, don’t feel sorry for yourself and stop trying on clothes. Put the pencil skirt away and try on an A-line skirt. It’s all about being smart and knowing where to put your effort. It it never wasting time to try on different styles, even when they don’t work. Just keep on trying different shapes until you find the ones that work on you. Then brush off any disappointment and keep track of what you’ve learned. Be smart in your decisions and start with what looks best on you. If you look best in flowy tunic dresses and leggings, go find some beautiful tunics! If you know you look best in a fitted top and a flared skirt, you can skip those pencil skirts and focus on those cute printed shirts. If you put in the initial time investment and try on a ton of different things, then the next shopping trip won’t be as hard, because you’ll be able to make decisions based on what you know works for you.