This week has been dress rehearsal, soft open, and full performances for the play! I have one more performance to go and I’m already missing everybody. That’s what makes plays so amazing – it’s the camaraderie, playing off each other’s reactions, feeding off everybody’s energy. It’s the joy that comes with creating art with other people. I’m tired and happy.
This week, I had to keep all the normal life stuff going (especially work) and prep for the play as well. Curly hair felt right for my character – curly hair has tons of personality and energy. It feels spunky and bouncy and individual. That kind of sums up my character, so I felt like I needed to do pin curls. This is a disclaimer up front to say that I brought this on myself – nobody made me do my hair in pin curls this week. I volunteered. I’m so glad I did, because the curly hair helped me get into character and it takes my costumes and makeup to the next level. It added a little bit of complexity to getting ready in the morning, but it was worth it!
Monday was full dress rehearsal – hair and makeup. So I woke up, washed my hair, started pinning down hair spirals. It’s not done until my head looks like a satellite photograph of hurricane season. The finished product looks a little strange, so the challenge this week has been making the bristling-with-pins porcupine stage look okay.
Method 1: Hat.
The truth? I really like hats, but I feel a little self-conscious about them. I probably shouldn’t be. Most people really like seeing other people wear hats. Unless everybody is lying. That’s a possibility. I wore my little bowler hat, my new favorite black pants, black flats, and a tie-front cropped top over a camisole. One theme that ran through this week – earrings. I tend to forget to wear earrings most of the time, but with all my hair up, my ears felt exposed and bare without a bold pair of earrings.
I included the second picture, because I want to show you what Sara (my long-suffering photographer) has to put up with. Lest you think I’ve got things together. Lest you think I am naturally photogenic and all the pictures look decent. NOBODY’S PICTURES ARE DECENT ALL THE TIME. Most of the time, Posing plus Ashley equals Disaster.
Came home, took out the pins. This happened. I looked like Moss from The IT Crowd. Slightly shocking, but it softened up as the evening went on. Like stage makeup, this hair is exaggerated. Perfect for stage, a little crazy in normal circumstances.
This is the same hair after a long, hot, sweaty rehearsal. It looks very 1920s and that’s exactly what I was going for, so I’m pretty happy with those results!
Tuesday was a dress rehearsal, but no hair or makeup, so I just got to enjoy the leftover curl in my hair. Waking up with my hair big made me want curly hair. I loved it. Threw on one of my happy little summer dresses and black flats (because they were already out from the day before). No makeup, because I ran out of foundation the day before. Happy day.
Note to my friends with naturally curly hair: I love your hair. I wish I had it. Some of my friends in high school straightened their hair all the time and I didn’t even know they had curls. That’s crazy! Reshaping your hair every day is an enormous amount of work! Just know that I love your big hair. It’s like hats – people love hats on other people, but they are self-conscious when it comes to wearing hats themselves. It takes a little bit of boldness, especially if you aren’t used to it. But you should give it a try, especially during the summer.
Method 2: Headwrap
Do I think this is the best look ever? Nope. But it worked. I pinned those curls up until my head looked like typhoon season over the Indian Ocean, then wrapped a black satin belt around my head. It didn’t cover the pin spirals, but it did make them look more intentional. Ever wonder what the difference between Fashion and Throwing On Random Stuff is? Intention. Or the impression of Intention. Intention and confidence are very closely connected. The confident person makes everything that they wear look planned, under control, intentional, even when nothing is planned, nothing is in control, and the intention got painted on after the fact.
Striped shirt (a happy thrift store find), old jeans, heels (to give the impression that my life is under control…), and earrings that I don’t usually wear. I don’t usually wear them, because when I turn my head too fast, they slap me in the face. They are very long earrings. Handy for distraction and misdirection. “Yes. All my hair is pinned to my head in little circles, but LOOK AT THESE EARRINGS. I CAN SLAP MYSELF IN THE FACE WITH THEM.” If I get self-conscious, I can just run away while they’re thinking about that statement.
I used the headwrap again on Thursday. This was a half-up, half-down hair day, because I ran out of time that morning. The curls in the front are the most important part, because I pin the back of my hair up into a faux bob for the play. Again, not the most successful overall hair look, but the dress is so fun that it distracts from the hair shortcomings.
I think print dresses are wardrobe stars. One and done. If I’m in a rush, I reach for a print dress. This day was great, because we had our soft open on Wednesday, so I still had a little glow from a successful performance and a sparkle from anticipating Opening Night. Happy day. Have I mentioned I love performing for an audience? If you want to see a happy Ashley, come find me after a whole audience laughs at my jokes. *happy sigh*
My other hat. A straw one that I really don’t wear very much, but it’s a lovely hat. I’ve realized I like classic men’s hat shapes best – bowler, fedora, panama, boater. I want a silk top hat at some point in my life. I’m not attracted to floppy brim hats, even though they are all over the place right now. If you are intimidated by hats, try a few different styles. You might find one and think, “This is my hat. Hello, hat. This is the beginning of a beautiful friendship.”
This outfit went bold, because of the hat. Hats get noticed. The shirt dress is subtly bold, because the proportions are interesting. I like it. Added a pair of heels for height, because the dress is a bit oversized and having longer legs kept it from overwhelming my short frame.
This week made me appreciate my grandmas – they both used to do their hair in pin curls and they looked beautiful. Of course, they didn’t have them in during the day – they slept in them, which must have been very uncomfortable. Some days when I woke up with curl in my hair, it made me think I looked like my Grandma Margaret. That makes me happy, because she’s gorgeous. If I grow up to have half of her spunk and gumption, I’ll be happy with that.
This week also made me appreciate my hair. I don’t do much with it and I usually think of it as very normal and / or boring. But it’s nice hair. I like it. And now I know how to make it curly! Will I do pin curls all the time? No. It’s too much work to do all the time, and I’m not very skilled at it, so the curls are all different sizes and it gets frizzy. But it’s been a great week. The last performance is tonight and the curls will bounce again!